Pain

We don’t realize we are losing a friend when it slowly fades away with time.
But a Break up puts an abrupt end to that relation and leaves such a dreadful pain that haunts you for rest of your lives.

When we see or hear something that reminds you of that person, the same old pain returns. We may forget the good times we had together, but that pain always remains deep hidden in our heart.

I am not being cynical, but that is human nature.

Sometimes I deliberately let away a relationship to fade away with time so that I need not see another break up. In doing so, when we think of them at least the good memories will return instead of an intimidating pain.

Irony

IF it's true Love or true Friendship, it will never fade.

The Distance, Time can never affect that relationship.
It will always remain fresh even though sometimes they don't express it.

But the Irony is Love and Friendship is something that should be expressed. It's easy to lose true friends, but very very difficult to gain one.

Sometimes you may not realize that you have lost a true friend till you lose him/her.

So always be in touch.

Potter

Harry Potter...

Irrespective of the TV channel you are watching or the Newspaper you are reading, it’s Potter Potter everywhere. Pottermania... that what's its called.
People who don’t know Potter must be wondering “It’s just a Children’s Tale, Why so much Hype?”

I don’t know how to answer that question, but if you know Potter I bet you will join the
excited crowd to know what will happen to our dear Harry. I can’t find words to praise JK Rowling for creating such a perfect Magical world which will help Muggles like us to leave this restless world for sometime.

Last day I was just trying to recollect the Life of Harry, how he has grown, the difficulties he had faced when he had confronted with the Dark Lord, how down I was when Harry lost his loved ones.

I was trying to recollect what inspired me most in the series.
Then I heard these words of Dumbledore to Harry.

“Your mother died to save you. If there is one thing Voldemort can't understand, its love.”
This shows the power of Love. How the love of his mother had stopped even the Greatest Dark Wizard.

"It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

“You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow up to be!”
It was Harry’s choice to take the right path. He had many things common with the Dark Lord(You know Who). But what Harry and Voldemort became was a result of their choices not their abilities.

In Life, far more than our abilities, it is our choices that make what we are.

“Why do people fag?” I asked my friend who was enjoying his Post lunch smoke.
He smiled and said
“It’s hereditary, you know?
I recently read an article that it’s medically proven.
When people try for the first time,
Some stop it then and there.
Some continue for sometime.
Some becomes chain smokers.
See, it’s all hereditary.”

Here also it’s the choice that we make to fag or not. If we make a choice to
Smoke one cigarette, hereditary factor may come into picture. But still the first smoke was always our choice.

Some may be very talented in arts, but there also it’s their choice to go forward with their Talent or not.
I was excellent in Biology, But my choice made me what i am now.
Kuttapan had scored half century against Sreeshanth. But it was their choices that made one an Engineer and other a famous cricketer.

Remember,
“It is our choice that matters, not our Talent or Predisposition”.

Break the Rules

I happened to read one of the forwards that tell how a Paradigm is created.
"I don't know – that's how things are done around here".
That's always our reply to the question:
"Why are you doing this, why can’t it be done this way?" Or “Why do you think so?"

Everything we do, is something that's already done by someone and we are merely following. Even when there is slight shift in the paradigm, people reacts, there will be violent protests, and the whole Universe will try to destroy you.

Take any example in our day today life.
Government revised the syllabus to impart Sex Education. There were violent protests everywhere. When we ask the protesters why are they doing this? They say, Sex is bad and should not be taught to students and they utter the samewords, "That's how things are".

We are asked to code in a way with some coding standards. There may be better way to writing the code that increases readability. But we do as it was done by someone earlier. May be someday, some fool must have coded like that by accident and we are merely following.

Great people have definitely broken these rules sometime in their lives.

This is exactly what Ayn Rand is trying to say in her book "Fountain Head" via the character "Howard Roark".

Why do we follow these rules? Whom are we scared of?

Don’t you think it’s a topic to contemplate?

Live Life,
Become what you always wanted to.

Make your life meaningful.

Never hesitate to do what you feel is right.
Break the rules if you feel it's wrong coz these rules themselves are made by humans.
Follow your heart with your brain's support.

Remember, we have only one Life.

Intimacy, Love, Care, trust comes naturally.

Even if there is a bit of artifciality, things don't last.

As long as you have a friend with you

whom you can trust,

whom you can share your thoughts,

whom you are sure will be never let you fall,

whom you are sure will never let you down

You will never feel lonely.

The loneliness and darkness always spreads in their absence.